• Why am I no longer afraid of the New Relationship Energy

    When the poly lifestyle was still in the realm of thought for me and not brought into practice, one question constantly bothered me. It was the question of managing the energy of the new relationship. Let’s take things one step at a time and define the New Relationship Energy (NRE). This is in fact the…

  • I am Tricia McMillan

    1. Tell us about yourself. I am Tricia McMillan – the alias I use on Feeld and some swinger sites. Brings me a lot of joy. I’m a cisgender bisexual woman, writer and journalist. 2. When and how did you realise that polyamory/ENM was a thing and you could transition into this lifestyle? I can’t…

  • My monster isn’t green eyed

    In this article I will unveil my personal journey through jealousy – what has happened to me, how did it affect me, and how it changed my attitude and personal beliefs. I will outline what became easier with time and experience, and in contrast, in what I did not undergo any development. What led me…

  • „Shake the disease“ or why am I able to spell chlamydia trachomatis by heart

      I am quite sure that ENM people can benefit from the establishment of regular good practices when it comes to testing of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). In this article I will present my point of view on the positive and negative aspects of the introduction of boundaries (and hopefully, in rare occasions rules) related…